Life May Get Difficult At Times

Do you find yourself wondering ‘Why does my life suck?’.

That’s because life is supposed to be good.

If it can’t be rocking or happening all the time, at least it should feel to be okay or fair.

But that’s not the case in most people’s lives.

Sometimes, life just doesn’t pick up, hence keeping us troubled all the time.

At other times, it continuously oscillates between the good and the bad zone.

It’s the bad zone that we are going to talk about today.

So, why does life suck and what are the possible ways to make it better.

Why Does My Life Suck?

What are the possible reasons that may make you feel that your life sucks?

You Don’t Feel Calm

The first answer to your question ‘Why does my life suck’ is that you don’t feel calm within yourself.

For most people, the feeling of stability or inner tranquility is missing in their minds.

The reasons for it may be fear, anxiety, self-doubts, or pressure of many things in life.

The good news is that the feeling of calm can be developed within you.

There are things that you can do to make your mind more stable, like meditation.

However, meditation may not work very well if the underlying problem of your anxiety isn’t addressed.

Thus, what needs to be done is to find the reason for your anxiety and remove it from your life.

If it is some kind of a fear, you should face your fears and do the thing or activity you are scared of so much so that you are no more scared of it.

When you become calm, you would no longer wonder ‘Why does my life suck’.

You Remain Stuck In Your Thoughts

The second answer to your question ‘Why does my life suck’ is that you remain stuck in your thoughts.

It’s possible that dealing with your thoughts is a problem for you right now.

When a thought comes, you either take it in the negative direction or start overthinking.

This way, thoughts pile up in your mind and make your life suck.

The solution for sticky thoughts is either to take them in a positive direction or find solutions to them.

Positive thinking needs practice, so practice creating a positive thought about every thought that comes to your mind.

And for the negative thoughts, start with finding a simple and practical solution to them.

When your thoughts free up, you would no longer wonder ‘Why does my life suck’.

You Are Not Able To Think Positive

The next answer to your question ‘Why does my life suck’ is that you are not able to think positively.

The habit of thinking positively is an art that you develop over time.

It may feel that you have so many problems that it’s impossible to think positively.

But that’s not the truth and you can develop yourself into being a positive person.

Everyone has problems in their lives and everyone feels the same way.

To develop positive thinking, practice visualization, and manifestation.

Practice visualizing what you want in your life.

See them becoming a reality in your life and observe how you are reacting to them.

This would not only make your thinking positive, but it would also apply the law of attraction to your life to give you that thing.

When your thinking becomes all rosy with the habit to think positively, you no longer wonder ‘Why does my life suck’.

You Feel Lethargic All The Time

The next answer to your question ‘Why does my life suck’ is that you feel lethargic all the time.

When the feeling of laziness and helplessness engulfs you, it seems that life isn’t good anymore.

Laziness and lethargy may be the results of an unhealthy life which includes junk food and minimal or no physical exercise.

It may also be a sign of weak willpower or lack of mental strength.

Trying to make fast changes may disappoint you and it may get harder and harder to come out of lethargy.

So, take a small step at a time.

First, stop eating junk and unhealthy food and switch to normal home-cooked food.

When things get better for you, switch to an all-healthy meal consisting of green-leafy veggies and fresh fruits & vegetables.

Start going out for a walk and slowly start exercising regularly.

Do not eat too much sugar as it weakens both your body and your mental strength.

Stick to this routine and your mental strength and willpower also recover quickly.

When you don’t feel lethargic anymore, you no longer wonder ‘Why does my life suck’.

You Don’t Know What To Do

The next answer to your question ‘Why does my life suck’ is that you don’t know what to do.

A lack of planning, a fixed daily routine, or set goals in life also make you feel that your life isn’t any good.

The underlying reason for all this may be a deeper feeling of insignificance and meaninglessness.

Thus, the solution lies in telling yourself that you matter and that your life is precious.

Use daily affirmations to instill the feeling of being important within yourself.

When you start believing that you matter and that your life is a gift, start making plans to do something wonderful and full of meaning with your life.

Set goals & objectives in your life that you can go after.

Then chalk out daily, weekly, or monthly targets to achieve these goals & objectives and the corresponding daily routines to achieve them.

When your journey of life starts, you no longer wonder ‘Why does my life suck’.

You Don’t Feel Loved By Your Partner

The next answer to your question ‘Why does my life suck’ is that you don’t feel loved by your partner.

Personal life matters a lot when we talk about the quality of our lives.

When you don’t feel loved by your partner, it hurts, and it starts feeling too lonely.

You must find out the reason for how you feel.

If it’s because you expect too much or have a troubled past, you need to work on yourself.

You need to love yourself more so that your expectations from your partner become reasonable.

You also need to let the past go and not let it hurt your present or your future.

When you are close to being your true self once again, you will feel loved by your partner.

And if it’s your partner who is really at fault, talk to him or her and tell them how you feel.

If they understand, they love you, and hence they will realize their mistake and improve.

If they don’t, probably you need to be with someone who respects you and loves you more.

When you feel loved by your partner once again, you would no longer wonder ‘Why does my life suck’.

Your Family Isn’t Supportive Enough

The next answer to your question ‘Why does my life suck’ is that your family isn’t supportive enough.

Emotional support from family is very important in pulling you up during rough times.

When a family is unsupportive, the possible reasons could be that the family is broken, the bonds aren’t that strong, or you don’t communicate enough with each other.

If your family is broken or the connections aren’t good enough, you need to be strong as an individual and stop expecting too much from your family.

It would only give you disappointment and pain to expect support from them.

But if the problem is in communication, you need to talk with your family openly about what’s going on in your life.

Tell them how you feel about it and ask for advice or help.

Mere words of consolation from family can prove to be enough many times. 

It would give you a lot of strength and purpose in life.

When you feel your family to be your strength once more, you no longer wonder ‘Why does my life suck’.

You Have No Real Friends

The next answer to your question ‘why does my life suck’ is that you don’t have any real friends.

Childhood friends or best friends forever make your life exciting and worth living.

The reason why one may not have any friends is because maybe they are a loner or they are different.

If you are an introvert or a loner, make yourself your best friend.

Be so happy in your own company that others get attracted to you and want to be friends with you.

If you are different, you must have different goals in life than others.

Follow your interests and those goals because they are your best friends.

Do not worry if you don’t have any “real” friends because you don’t need any.

If you still want someone, you can have a dog with you as they are more than just friends.

And when you fulfill your unique goals in life, the whole world will want to be friends with you.

When you have the best friends anyone can have, you no longer wonder ‘Why does my life suck’.

Nobody Likes You

The next answer to your question ‘Why does my life suck’ is that nobody likes you.

When people like you they either smile at you or come to talk to you and get involved with you more.

When people don’t like you, it’s either because you don’t agree with them all the time or you get into arguments or even fights with them.

If you don’t agree with them and they don’t like you, it’s not your fault.

You have your opinions and the right to put forward what you feel.

You are not obligated to make everybody happy by unnecessarily complimenting them or taking their side.

You can be yourself and the right people who like to hear the truth would find you and like you.

But if you get into arguments and fights with people to prove your point, you need to step back a little.

Maybe people don’t have any problem with your opinion but they do not like your habit of getting aggressive while discussing certain things.

Thus, put your opinions forward politely and peacefully, it might make people like you.

When people start liking you, you would no longer wonder ‘Why does my life suck’.

You Don’t Like Your Job

The next answer to your question ‘Why does my life suck’ is that you don’t like your job.

When you have given up your passion and are working in an unrelated field, life is bound to become difficult.

Getting into a field other than your passion may be motivated by parental or peer pressure or the desire to earn more money.

It’s never too late to start following your passion.

Happiness and satisfaction are more important than anything else.

So, ensure that you have enough money in your bank account to support your dreams and set out to make them a reality.

Being in a field that you actually like may let you have both money and happiness together.

When you like your job, you no longer wonder ‘Why does my life suck’.

You Have Too Much Work To Do

The next answer to your question ‘Why does my life suck’ is that you have too much work to do.

Leisure and a work-life balance are very important to ensure that there are no burnouts during work. 

Too much work may be because of your low productivity due to a low speed of work or it could be because your company is putting too much workload on you.

There are ways to enhance productivity as an employee.

Sometimes, taking rest itself is a productivity enhancer and a work speed booster.

So, you plan a vacation to refresh & rejuvenate yourself.

In other cases, there is a need for training and upgradation so that your efficiency increases rapidly.

But if the real reason for too much work is that your company is putting undue pressure of work on you, maybe it’s time to switch to a job with less pressure.

Proper and sufficient rest, peace of mind, and optimum amount of daily work are important requirements for you.

Even if you have to forgo some money for it, choose a job that grants you these necessities.

When you have a manageable amount of work at your workplace, you would no longer wonder ‘Why does my life suck’.

Your Life Isn’t Going Anywhere

The next answer to your question ‘why does my life suck’ is that your life isn’t going anywhere.

Everyone has dreams of taking their lives in a direction of their choice.

But there are many factors involved in life many of which aren’t in our direct control.

So, when life doesn’t go in the direction in which we want it to go, it may seem that life sucks.

What you need to do is to become a little open in your mind and trust the process of your life.

Many times when we lose a little control over life, great things happen.

God’s plans for us are always better than our plans and we need to believe in the same.

So, even if it feels that your life isn’t going anywhere or that it sucks, keep doing your best.

Who knows you might get something better than your plans.

When life will give you more than what you wanted, you would no longer wonder ‘Why does my life suck’.

Be The Solution

The question ‘why does my life suck’ has a simple answer.

The reason why life sucks is only because we can’t find solutions to our problems.

You have to live with the belief that every problem of yours has a solution and with the attitude that you are going to find that solution.

When you develop the ability to be resilient, progressive, and smart in your approach to life, you become a solution.

And when you are the solution, there cannot be any obstacle left in your life.

Life stops sucking and becomes a treat for you.

And when life becomes beautiful, your self love reaches its peak to make your life increasingly beautiful forever.