Harsh Wardhan

How To Deal With Silent Treatment From Boyfriend

What to Do When Your Boyfriend Gives You the Silent Treatment

Relationship Advice And Communication / Harsh Wardhan

Being at the receiving end of a silent treatment is a tricky situation in a relationship. But the good news is that it has a simple yet powerful way to deal with it.

And the best part is that you can break out of the cold treatment without hurting the relationship.

Silent treatment is when your boyfriend is using silence as a weapon to have his way with you. He plans not to talk to you till you succumb to the pressure and agree to his demands.

There are subtle signs to confirm you are getting silent treatment from your boyfriend.

If your boyfriend isn’t talking to you like he usually does, or ignoring your calls and SMSs, or getting irritated when you try hard to speak to him, he is giving you the silent treatment.

He may be giving you the silent treatment for one or more reasons.

He may be pressuring you to act in a certain way. For example, he may want you to let him spend more time with his friends. Or he may be trying to make you feel guilty for a recent situation by making you “think.” He may also be trying to gain the upper hand in the relationship and become more dominant by using pressure tactics.

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Signs He Is Not Sorry for Hurting You: What You Must Notice

Relationship Advice And Communication / Harsh Wardhan

Feeling hurt is more common in a relationship than you may think. And luckily, it doesn’t require drastic measures.

Some simple yet powerful steps can set things right. It begins with looking for the signs your boyfriend isn’t sorry about hurting you.

When your partner ‘hurts’ you, it means they caused you pain in some way.

‘Hurting’ in a relationship can be emotional or physical.

Your boyfriend may say something insensitive that may hurt your feelings, for example, belittling your relationship needs like ‘honesty.’ It’s emotional hurt.

But they may also have a habit of hurtfully grabbing your arm while in an argument. This is physical hurt!

Let me make it very clear—emotional hurt has some room for giving the benefit of doubt, but ‘physical tackling’ is unacceptable in any relationship.

If your boyfriend hurts you physically, without much thinking, you must give an immediate, firm warning to him. If he repeats something similar, you need to get out of the relationship at the earliest.

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4 Secrets to Embrace the Power of Silence After Breakup

Relationship Advice And Communication / Harsh Wardhan

Remember how you felt all shaken up while parting ways with your ex?

Have you ever thought of harnessing the power of silence after break up?

You will be amazed by what learning this powerful art can do for you!

Breakups are hard, but what you have to go through on either side is even more complex — and probably indescribable!

While breaking up, you are already in shock, but the associated pain makes it more challenging.

Many questions rush through your mind like “Why is this happening?” “Why have I lost control over myself?” or “Why is my partner being so harsh?” And you don’t have any answers to these questions.

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How To Deal With A Partner Who Is Not Affectionate

Dealing With a Partner Who Isn’t Affectionate: A Compassionate Guide

Relationship Advice And Communication / Harsh Wardhan

To put it straight—it’s possible to learn how to deal with a partner who is not affectionate and turn them into an affectionate one.

Affection is a fundamental need in a relationship. It is what you get into a relationship for in the first place!

Affection is the proof of the presence of love in a relationship. When your partner misses you when you are not around, holds you tightly in their arms, or is just there when you need them emotionally, it’s affection. If love is the source, affection is the river that flows out of it.

If you do not receive affection from your partner, you must first think whether they find it difficult to show affection or if they are entirely unaffectionate.

If you feel they try but feel stuck and thus retreat, it’s a sign they are affectionate but are struggling to find a way to show affection.

However, if they make no effort whatsoever to comfort you and are not affectionate, it may be a personality trait.

But having an unaffectionate personality still doesn’t mean your partner doesn’t love you. It may mean their way of expressing affection or love language is different from what you expect. For example, they may consider financial security a way to show affection, while you may expect emotional closeness as affection.

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My Boyfriend Compares Me To His Ex When We Fight — Here’s What To Do

Relationship Advice And Communication / Harsh Wardhan

Issues in a relationship are normal, but when your boyfriend starts comparing you to his ex in a fight, it’s more than just hurtful. You feel judged, disrespected, and trivialised, all at the same time. It feels so unfair that you don’t know how to react, and emotions rush out—shock, disappointment, and anger.

When it happens repeatedly, your trust begins to shake, and you wonder if he even wants to be with you anymore.

A fight is already draining and overwhelming. When your boyfriend tries to put pressure on you by bringing in his ex, it only complicates the situation further.

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How to Tell Your Partner You Need Space After a Fight

Relationship Advice And Communication / Harsh Wardhan

It can feel overwhelming, to say the least. First, you don’t want to fight, but you find yourself dragged into it. And after a mentally draining argument, when you need some time alone to regain yourself, you aren’t allowed to do so either. It all feels like you are reduced to a weaker version of yourself after the fight. You even start doubting whether your partner loves you or whether you are compatible as a couple.

But deep within yourself, you know it’s just the after-effects of the argument. The real issue is a lack of communication with your partner about the space you need after a fight. You are right!

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I Forgave My Boyfriend For Cheating But I Can't Get Over It

I Forgave My Boyfriend for Cheating — But I Still Can’t Get Over It

Relationship Advice And Communication / Harsh Wardhan

Getting Over Cheating Can Be Tough In a survey, 59% people said that they felt they had forgiven their partners after an affair. However, in a different question about healing, 58.5% of people accepted that, although they thought they were somewhat healed, they would always carry the scar of the betrayal. The survey reveals an

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How to Communicate Your Needs in a Relationship: Practical Ways That Work

Relationship Advice And Communication / Harsh Wardhan

The Need To Communicate Relationship Needs In a survey, 87% Americans admitted that while in a relationship, they have said something under stress that they later regretted. Do you know the single biggest reason behind saying something nasty that one might regret later? – The absence of timely communication of one’s needs to their partner.

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13 Clear Signs He Doesn’t Care After a Breakup (and How to Heal)

Relationship Advice And Communication / Harsh Wardhan

Being Ignored After A Breakup Breaks Your Heart Has your ex-boyfriend been acting strangely after your recent breakup with him? Do you find yourself looking for signs he doesn’t care after a breakup? I understand how heartbreaking it can feel. To say the least, it feels trivialized and ignored when the person you’ve sacrificed so

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