The Fundamental Mistake of Human Lives

What do you think is the biggest mistake of your life?

The answer may come as a surprise to most.

Your biggest mistake is not falling in love with yourself completely.

As a child, you dreamed of growing up and falling in love one day. 

No, it wasn’t a silly wish. 

Love is a magical thing that makes you feel out of the world.

But the physicality of us humans is such that we are instinctively outwardly oriented. 

It is why your childhood wish was to love someone else and not yourself first.

Even as a grown-up, it never appeared to you that you should first fall in love with yourself before showering someone else with your love.

It is a fundamental mistake we commit, leading to many complications, sufferings, and pains in our lives.

Thus, falling in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness.

Falling in Love With Yourself: A Necessity & A Goldmine of Gifts

Falling in love with yourself is necessary to live a complete life.

Falling in love with yourself is necessary even to stay alive.

Self-Love To Stay Alive

Falling in love with yourself is essential to hang on to your precious life.

Just take a second and think, why do some people take their own lives? 

At that moment, there may seem to be one or many compelling reasons to do so, but isn’t it simply because of a lack of self-love?

If a person loves himself, will any problem seem more significant than their life?

A suicide is an extreme case where a person has no self-love left, not even a whisker.

We can also say that people kill themselves because they become their worst possible enemy at that particular moment.

Thus, falling in love with yourself is essential to stay alive. 

Life is the simplest yet the biggest blessing anyone can get.

And it is kept intact by self-love.

This realization helps you start loving yourself to the point where you no longer are your enemy. 

You start valuing your life, and you now know that committing any self-harm is a sin.

So, courtesy of the bare minimum of self-love you developed, you can now survive any adverse situation that may come your way.

Self-Love For A Meaningful Life

Falling in love with yourself makes your life meaningful.

Is just being alive enough? 

Of course not. 

Being alive and not knowing why you should stay alive might make life worse than death. 

It can be total torture as you feel stuck between life & death.

Thus, the amount of self-love that gave you a reason to live may not be enough going forward. 

You now need to boost it to the next level, where it adds meaning to your life.

Now, when you fall in love with yourself a bit more, you start seeing meaning in your life. 

You get a reason to stay alive even when you don’t have everything you want in life.

A meaningful life removes the emptiness or loneliness that you may feel otherwise.

But how do you fall in love with yourself and find meaning in your life?

There are various ways to fall in love with yourself, but there is only one way to a meaningful life.

Foundations of Self-Love & Meaning in Life

Generally, realizing that the greatest entity, God, loves you and wants you to be happy imparts meaning to life.

God’s love for you can be easily confirmed by acknowledging that he created you and has kept you alive at this very moment.

People who lack meaning in their lives make the mistake of replacing God with someone they love, like God.

Mostly, this person is their love interest or partner. 

The moment this person feels that their partners don’t love them anymore, their life loses meaning.

Some even slip back onto the stage, where they feel like ending their lives altogether.

They fail to realize that self-love is the reason behind a great relationship and that without it, a relationship remains weak at its very foundation.

Thus, it’s crucial to realize & remember God’s constant love for us.

It will make you fall in love with yourself, and you will start to live a life full of meaning and substance.

It would help manage your fears of losing someone important by replacing them with the realization of God’s presence in your life.

It will establish the foundation of self-love within you.

As you know, laying the foundation is the most critical stage of any structure.

Once the foundation of self-love is ready within you, the following steps start to flow effortlessly.

Living a life with meaning is only the beginning of falling in love with yourself. 

The next step in the process is living with a purpose.

Self-Love To Find Purpose In Life

You find your life’s purpose when you fall in love with yourself.

When you have found meaning in life, it starts to push you naturally towards having a purpose in life. 

It’s the third stage in falling in love with yourself. 

It’s where the material benefits of loving yourself begin.

A purpose in life is of utmost importance. 

It’s the reason for which you live. 

It helps you push forward in life. 

It’s the motivation that helps you encourage yourself to get up, get going, and give your best every day.

Knowing your purpose comes from falling in love with yourself a little more than when you were living your life meaningfully.

When you do so, you search for what you want to do in life. 

What is it that would make you happier and hence help you further increase your self-love?

Your life’s purpose may be peace, knowledge, love, money, happiness, etc. 

According to your life’s purpose, you will have many goals & objectives that you would set for yourself.

Your purpose, goals, and objectives would keep you focused and guide you in the right direction.

Self Love And Fulfilment of Life’s Purpose

You need to fall in love with yourself to fulfill your life’s purpose.

But knowing your life purpose and setting your goals and objectives is one thing; fulfilling and accomplishing them is another. 

To achieve this, you need to learn to fall in love with yourself even more.

When you fall in love with yourself somewhat more, the knowledge paths to accomplishing your goals & objectives and fulfilling your life purpose open up in your mind.

Greater self-love also gives you the courage and the will to develop the required skills to walk on those paths.

It also gives you the strength and the ability to improvise to accomplish your set targets.

Thus, the new enhanced level of self-love within you allows you to fulfill all your goals and objectives and, hence, your life purpose.

You experience fulfillment and a sense of completeness when you have achieved your life purpose.

In summary, falling in love with yourself makes you a complete person in yourself.

At this point, self-love is at its highest within you.

Increasingly falling in love with yourself as per your need at various times has led you to achieve your purpose in life and filled you with love, happiness, and a sense of completeness.

Self-Love To Earn Love

To get love from the people you love, you must first fall in love with yourself.

When you have fulfilled your life’s purpose and are full of self-love, now is the right time to become outward-oriented. 

Now is the time to help others by sharing your naturally overflowing love and putting them on their paths to fulfill their life purpose. 

And for this, they would shower you with their love.

It is how falling in love with yourself earns you the love of others naturally and meaningfully.

Ultimately, it will make you a complete person in every respect and the truest sense of the word.

Thus, when you fall in love with yourself, you fulfill your objective as a human being.

Fall in Love With Yourself Now

These are the precious benefits that falling in love with yourself offers.

Falling in love with yourself doesn’t demand anything drastic. 

It doesn’t require you to learn rocket science; it only requires you to develop courage within yourself.

Thus, wait no longer and start falling in love with yourself right away!

What is it called when you fall in love with yourself?

Some people think it’s impossible to love yourself, while others feel embarrassed.

They even feel guilty that they are giving themselves too much importance. 

They fear that people would call them self-obsessed or narcissistic for loving themselves.

But falling in love with yourself is possible and completely normal. 

Falling in love with yourself is necessary to live life beyond your wildest dreams.

When you fall in love with yourself, it’s called the beginning of self-love in your life, a beautiful journey.

It lets you live a meaningful life, gives you a purpose to live for, and helps you fulfill it. 

It makes you a complete person, allows you to serve others with all your heart, and hence, earns their love.

Thus, when you fall in love with yourself, you bask in the warmth of self-love.

What does it mean when you fall in love with yourself?

When you fall in love with yourself, it simply means that you are now able to see the truth of your life.

You have started celebrating who you are and appreciating what you have done till then. 

You look forward to living the life of your dreams, and you are devoted to building it with self-love and honest effort.

You no longer have to fight with negativity but are capable of converting it into hope, positivity, and opportunity. 

You know what you want and also have the clarity & confidence to create it within yourself.

And this is all because you have fallen in love with yourself.

Can we fall in love with ourselves?

Yes, absolutely!

It should be your first step once you are a grown-up. 

Self-love is the basis of everything you do or want to do. 

It’s the very foundation of love in your life.

If you find it difficult to imagine falling in love with yourself, think about what all you have done, are still doing, and would do in the future for the ones you love in your life.

Then, start practicing these feelings, emotions, & activities for yourself. 

It will be the beginning of you falling in love with yourself.

When you fall in love with yourself, you will feel better about yourself and be able to love your loved ones better than before.

Your self-love would improve the expression of your love elsewhere.

Thus, it’s true that you can love yourself voluntarily and enhance the love quotient in your life.

How can I fall in love with myself?

First, realize that you need your love and can love yourself.

It’s a combination of standard feelings, emotions, and expressions that you do for the people you love. 

You have to do the same things for yourself.

To begin with, work towards finding inner peace. 

Do activities like meditation, among other things, that make you more relaxed and peaceful.

Next, care about yourself like you care about others. 

You may have felt that no one cares about you like you do for others, right? 

It’s because you are the one for yourself. 

Only you can take care of yourself in the best possible way.

So, look after your mental, physical, and emotional health. 

Invest in them by giving them time and effort. 

Ensure that you are consistently improving on those fronts.

Work on things that matter to you. 

For example, you may feel you have a great chance of becoming a rock singer and starting your band. 

Do not keep those dreams dormant. 

Take action and work towards bringing them to life.

Pursue your hobbies and do things that make you happy. 

It doesn’t matter how silly they seem or may seem to others. 

Self-love is about your march ahead; do not let petty things stand in your way.

Realize your life goals, objectives, & targets. 

Make plans, work towards them, and try to achieve them to fulfill the primary purpose of your life.

Even if they don’t get fulfilled, do not give up. 

Try again or go for something else that you like equally or more. 

Give it your everything and see what happens.

Falling in love with yourself is about opening up to yourself and doing what you feel is right in your life. 

It’s about becoming your best friend and the best version of yourself.